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Motor Development

What parents need to know

Dr Praful Gowda

3 min read

What Is Motor Development?

Motor development refers to how your child gains control over their body movements. These skills are not just about walking or running—they’re about how a child moves, balances, uses their hands, and explores their surroundings.

Motor development helps your child:

  • Sit and play independently

  • Feed themselves

  • Hold a pencil or spoon

  • Run, jump, climb, and play with other children

It is one of the first signs that your child is learning and interacting with the world.

Gross vs Fine Motor Skills: What’s the Difference?

There are two types of motor skills:

Gross Motor Skills

These involve large muscles and bigger movements like:

  • Rolling

  • Sitting

  • Crawling

  • Walking

  • Jumping

Fine Motor Skills

These involve smaller hand and finger movements like:

  • Picking up small objects

  • Turning book pages

  • Holding a crayon

  • Using a spoon

Both types grow steadily from birth and work together to support your child’s independence.

What Is a Motor Developmental Delay?

A motor delay means your child is not reaching movement milestones at the expected age. This might look like:

  • Not rolling over by 6 months

  • Not sitting without support by 9 months

  • Not walking by 18 months

  • Having difficulty using hands to play, feed, or draw

Sometimes, the delay is mild and temporary. Other times, it may point to an underlying issue like muscle weakness or a neurological problem. That’s why early recognition matters.

Motor Milestones: What to Expect and When

Here’s a general guide to motor milestones. Some variation is normal—but large delays should be discussed with your pediatrician.

0–3 months - Lifts head briefly, moves limbs freely Brings hands to mouth, opens and closes fists

4–6 months - Rolls over, pushes up on arms Reaches for toys, transfers objects hand-to-hand

6–9 months - Sits without support, begins crawling Bangs objects, rakes small items

9–12 months -Pulls to stand, cruises along furniture Pincer grasp, pokes with index finger

12–18 months- Walks alone, begins climbing Feeds self with fingers, stacks 2–3 blocks

2 years- Runs, kicks ball Turns pages, starts using spoon/fork

3–5 years- Hops, pedals tricycle, climbs stairs Holds pencil, draws shapes, dresses self

Red Flags That Suggest a Delay

By 6 months:

  • Stiff or floppy limbs

  • Doesn’t roll or push up on arms

  • Head control still poor

By 9 months:

  • Can’t sit without support

  • Doesn’t reach for toys

By 12 months:

  • Not crawling or pulling to stand

  • Uses one side of body more than the other

By 18 months:

  • Not walking independently

  • Falls often, walks only on toes

By 2–3 years:

  • Struggles to climb stairs or jump

  • Can’t use a spoon or build a block tower

If your child is missing multiple milestones or losing previously gained skills, consult your pediatrician promptly.

What Can Cause Motor Delays?

Motor delays may be caused by:

  • Prematurity

  • Low muscle tone (hypotonia)

  • Cerebral palsy

  • Muscular dystrophy or other muscle disorders

  • Genetic or metabolic conditions

  • Visual or sensory problems

  • Lack of opportunity to move or explore

In many cases, there is no single cause—and even with no diagnosis, early therapy can still help.

When Should You Be Concerned?

You don’t have to wait for a formal diagnosis. If your child:

  • Is not meeting 2 or more motor milestones

  • Shows stiff or floppy muscle tone

  • Moves less on one side

  • Can’t stand or walk well beyond 18 months

…it’s best to seek a pediatric or developmental consult.

Early help is better than late reassurance.

Who Can Help?

  • Pediatrician – First step for screening and referrals

  • Developmental Pediatrician – For deeper evaluation

  • Physiotherapist – For muscle tone, posture, movement training

  • Occupational Therapist – For hand use, coordination, self-help skills

  • Neurologist or Geneticist – If deeper causes are suspected

What Can You Do as a Parent?

  • Encourage tummy time from early infancy

  • Let your child explore on the floor—avoid keeping them in swings or walkers too long

  • Use toys that encourage movement (balls, tunnels, stacking toys)

  • Practice everyday skills—feeding, dressing, drawing

  • Celebrate small wins—every new movement counts

Is It Treatable? Will My Child Catch Up?

Many children with mild motor delays improve well with therapy and home support. Some children may have lifelong conditions but can still lead independent lives with the right interventions.

The earlier the support starts, the better the outcome. Don’t wait. Don’t feel guilty. Help your child grow with confidence.

Key Takeaways for Parents

  • Trust your instinct if something feels “off”

  • Know the key milestones and red flags

  • Seek help early—even if others say “he’ll catch up”

  • Therapy works best when started early

  • You are your child’s biggest support system

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Motor Milestone Checklist by Age (PDF)

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